Archive for May, 2010

So, the question came up and was asked this weekend, and I felt obliged to respond accordingly.

What are you looking for in a guy?  What do you want out of a relationship?

This is complicated.

I could answer both simply and efficiently, but that would cause more questions, I am sure.  So, here is my answer, albeit, informal as it may be.

What am I looking for in a guy?  There are key factors to what I want in a guy.  The first and foremost, is that he be honest, faithful, caring, kind and communicate with me.  He needs to understand that I have children and they come first.  The rest are little perks and qualities that I would like a guy to have.  I love to laugh, so a sense of humor is a plus.  I like surprises, so the occasional surprise is a bonus   I want a guy to be at least my height or taller   I have never really been one to base anything off of physical appearance, I always try to read the book, before judging the cover.  I want a guy to really want to read this book, before trying to base things off the cover.

So, I am looking for what all girls look for in a guy.  Pretty plan and simple

Relationship?  This is where I am a bit more picky O.o

Relationships are hard, no matter what situation you are in or where you are in the relationship.  From the first moment you step into a relationship to the second you leave it, it is all about the two of you being one.  Or, that is my belief anyway.  I think that communication in a relationship is one of the most important things there is about a relationship.  When I step into a relationship, I put 100% into it.  I want someone to be the same.  I like attention, this is no secret, but I don’t want to be smothered.  I am a touchy feely kinda person as well, I love holding hands when I am with the other half of the relationship, I love kissing and hugging and being held.  So, what do I really want from a relationship?  I want a man who is honest to me, won’t lie to me, won’t cheat on me, wants to be with me, and who is just as focused on the relationship as I am.  My philosophy is – When you are in a relationship, the you and I become a We, and we need to communicate in order to be happy.

So, I guess in a nutshell, this is what I am looking for..

Happy Reading,

<3 Kitty

Morning everyone.. It’s almost 2am.  Been a long, crazy week.  My mom went to the doc on Thursday, and they want to treat her for stomach problems, even though she has gall stones.  After treating her for 2 weeks, if the issue is still there, then they will schedule her for gall bladder surgery.  My aunt went in this morning for surgery and they took 60% of her lung.  She is in the hospital tonight.  Going to see her tomorrow.

Other than that, just trying to figure out all the other stuff I have in my head.  I am ready to have my website back.. and I am ready to try to find that thing that I am missing in my life.. I just can’t find the right missing piece of the puzzle..

It’s tough.. knowing that there are puzzle pieces out there.. that could fit, but can’t fit.  Either they are not here, or they are just not willing to try.. I think that I have begun to look at everything a bit differently.  Since I broke up with my boyfriend, I discovered that I am not willing to just settle.  I don’t want to rush in.  I seem to do that a lot, and it is usually against my better judgement.  My gut feeling will tell me “no”, and yet my heart is like ” aww hell what can it hurt”.  Well, I am trying to train my heart otherwise.  It’s tough, but I am working on it..

I think on that note.. and the fact that my eyelids are drooping, it’s time for me to head off to bed.  I hope everyone has a blessed day.

<3 Kitty

As some of you may know, my website has been down   You can find information about it here, but it looks like it’s on its way to coming back from the dead!!  YAY!  I am soo excited to be able to go home, and have my gallery, and my stories, and my WoW updates!  Don’t get me wrong, I have enjoyed my little home away from home   I think I may incorporate some of the little silly things on this site into my regular home   Sometimes a facelift is good.

I really hope that you guys and gals continue to check out the site.  The link is www.kittyteaser.org   Enjoy, and put me in your faves

<3 Kitty

I do not have the power to change your mind or your will.  I don’t have the ability to make the world revolve around you.  I don’t have the power to give you everything you want.  I am not a God.  I never claimed to be, and I never will.  I don’t want that kind of power over people.

I can’t make someone change their mind, or their actions.  I can’t force someone to bend to my will.  I can’t force someone to do anything.  I am not a God.

I am a person on this planet that is living and breathing.  I am here to raise my children, take care of my family and try to make sure they are happy.  I am not a God.

Sometimes the pain is so great, that we reach through it to the other side and grasp what is there.  Sometimes we grasp at straws thinking they will save us, and sometimes we grab a lifesaver.  Sometimes, we look to through the pain, and see that just handling it and moving on is the best thing to do.  Whatever you do, whether grasping or looking, remember that only you can change you.  You can’t change anyone else.  At least I am unable to change anyone else… I am not a God.

As I leave this blog today, I want you to just keep in mind.. We are but people, and that you cannot change, reform or uncreate anything that someone will not allow you to.  It is a fact of life.

I hope that you all realize only you can change you, and don’t expect anyone else to try to do it for you.

<3 Kitty

I had a great weekend!

I went out Saturday night with a great friend from work.. and now.. my hips hurt!  Yes, this sounds bad.. but it’s just from all the dancing I did!  I had a great time.. so a few things I want to erase from my memories.  I really did have a good time   Looking forward to doing it again

Sunday I met up with a friend and we hung out for a while, and had a great time!  Although I did discover the Popeye’s over by my house is just a bit ghetto and doesn’t give plasticware with their meals >.< .

So, I had a fantastic time.. didn’t meet any guys that were worthy of my awesomeness, but meh.. It will happen when it’s ready to happen

Later yall!!

<3 Kitty