So, the question came up and was asked this weekend, and I felt obliged to respond accordingly.

What are you looking for in a guy?  What do you want out of a relationship?

This is complicated.

I could answer both simply and efficiently, but that would cause more questions, I am sure.  So, here is my answer, albeit, informal as it may be.

What am I looking for in a guy?  There are key factors to what I want in a guy.  The first and foremost, is that he be honest, faithful, caring, kind and communicate with me.  He needs to understand that I have children and they come first.  The rest are little perks and qualities that I would like a guy to have.  I love to laugh, so a sense of humor is a plus.  I like surprises, so the occasional surprise is a bonus   I want a guy to be at least my height or taller   I have never really been one to base anything off of physical appearance, I always try to read the book, before judging the cover.  I want a guy to really want to read this book, before trying to base things off the cover.

So, I am looking for what all girls look for in a guy.  Pretty plan and simple

Relationship?  This is where I am a bit more picky O.o

Relationships are hard, no matter what situation you are in or where you are in the relationship.  From the first moment you step into a relationship to the second you leave it, it is all about the two of you being one.  Or, that is my belief anyway.  I think that communication in a relationship is one of the most important things there is about a relationship.  When I step into a relationship, I put 100% into it.  I want someone to be the same.  I like attention, this is no secret, but I don’t want to be smothered.  I am a touchy feely kinda person as well, I love holding hands when I am with the other half of the relationship, I love kissing and hugging and being held.  So, what do I really want from a relationship?  I want a man who is honest to me, won’t lie to me, won’t cheat on me, wants to be with me, and who is just as focused on the relationship as I am.  My philosophy is – When you are in a relationship, the you and I become a We, and we need to communicate in order to be happy.

So, I guess in a nutshell, this is what I am looking for..

Happy Reading,

<3 Kitty