I do not have the power to change your mind or your will.  I don’t have the ability to make the world revolve around you.  I don’t have the power to give you everything you want.  I am not a God.  I never claimed to be, and I never will.  I don’t want that kind of power over people.

I can’t make someone change their mind, or their actions.  I can’t force someone to bend to my will.  I can’t force someone to do anything.  I am not a God.

I am a person on this planet that is living and breathing.  I am here to raise my children, take care of my family and try to make sure they are happy.  I am not a God.

Sometimes the pain is so great, that we reach through it to the other side and grasp what is there.  Sometimes we grasp at straws thinking they will save us, and sometimes we grab a lifesaver.  Sometimes, we look to through the pain, and see that just handling it and moving on is the best thing to do.  Whatever you do, whether grasping or looking, remember that only you can change you.  You can’t change anyone else.  At least I am unable to change anyone else… I am not a God.

As I leave this blog today, I want you to just keep in mind.. We are but people, and that you cannot change, reform or uncreate anything that someone will not allow you to.  It is a fact of life.

I hope that you all realize only you can change you, and don’t expect anyone else to try to do it for you.

<3 Kitty